In one of my other classes we read
a piece written by a woman in the military, and in it she discusses her
experiences. She talks a lot about how
men treated her and how she perceived other women she was working with. The
piece was an excerpt from a book titled “Love My Rifle More than You”, and I
thought it was an interesting contrast to a movie on Netflix I recently watched
called the “The Invisible War”. The piece I read in class was very negative
towards other women in the military describing them as “Queens for a Year” (a
term used for military women getting more attention because of their sex while
oversees), and that women who chose to sleep with their coworkers ruin the
reputation of all. I think that this concept can be seen in real life oftentimes
too, where women instead of supporting one another are actually contributing to
slut-shaming and policing each other. I
was shocked by how little camaraderie she felt with the other women, she mostly
described a sense of jealousy. Also in
the article that I read in class it never once talked about the huge problem of
sexual assault in the military. I was
curious if in the book it is mentioned it somewhere else, so I searched online
and found it was a topic she never discussed in the book. I was shocked that in
a book about her experience and women in the military generally, she never once
touched on an issue that would seem very relevant women’s experiences. Below is
the trailer for “The Invisible War”, which if anyone has time I would highly
recommend that you watch. Until watching this I was unaware of just how
extensive a problem rape for both women and men in the military was, and how little is being done to
change it.
When I saw the title of this post I expected it to be about how many men think women shouldn't be in it because it's just a 'man's job'. This is a whole new topic that I really haven't heard much of before and one that I find very interesting. I haven't done much research myself, but from what you've said here, it sounds like men in the military are finding a way to have sex whether it's by raping locals or having sex with coworkers. As a man, it's pretty shameful that men seem to have this sexual need and the lengths that they will go to satisfy it.
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