http://www.returnofkings.com/30402/most-women-dont-deserve-a-good-man
I saw a facebook friend of mine posted this as his status the other day. A couple of guys commented saying how it was exactly how they feel, and because their last girlfriend cheated on them and fit this description all girls definitely fit this description. I don't know him well, and from observing my newsfeed I think facebook "debates" almost always turn into immature fights that are awkward for everyone involved, so I stopped myself from saying anything haha. There are alot of great counter arguments to this but a simple one I would have liked to comment in a fit of frustration just include some points; Yes, there are humans out there that are hypocrites and half of those humans happen to be females. By definition hypocrites judge others for actions they themselves commit. So, in a relationship setting extreme hypocrites probably find themselves cheating on their significant others while expecting their partners not to cheat. One reason why this ignorant man is probably mistaking hypocrisy in these women hes referencing for an innate personality feature in all women is because of them apparently referencing some of the gender relationship norms of behavior perpetuated in the mainstream media. (IE in most typical movies the main female character realizes she should be with the man who opens her doors etc.) Which yeah, displays an inability to see more than surface value and have inner reflection (like most hypocrits)
Lastly, it makes sense this man has come in contact with these hypocritical women that he uses to generalize all women considering his quote, "Let’s not even get into the women I personally have hooked up with over
the years who were married or had boyfriends. That was something I did
mostly in my 20’s and is not worth the hassle or risk these days, but I
truly don’t think the average guy out there realizes what shady
creatures women are by nature". He so casually mentions the women he has been in relationships that he knew were in a relationship, having no remorse or acknowledgement for the benefits he received and part he played in these womans' hurtful actions. It makes sense he would attract fellow hypocrites and simplify the issue of a lack of self reflection by generalizing a sex.
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